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I’m Topsie.

I’m the Mindset Expert for female entrepreneurs. As you’re reading this, I’m on my coach, in my jammies at noon on a Wednesday, getting ready to go to my mental health therapy practice for a few hours. I have made it my life’s work, to help driven women experience freedom from the toxic thought patterns that keep them feeling stuck.

We all know that self-sabotage ain’t cute, but yet this happens anyway- especially to my babes who own their businesses. And I’m on a mission to help thousands of women end this spiral, that literally causes them to self-sabotage- and miss opportunities to sell.

You’re probably like, “Who is this girl?! Where does she get her confidence from?”

Babygirl, I am a first generation Nigerian American woman from Michigan that saw an opportunity to fill a gap in an industry that was under-saturated with experts like me. With a background in using evidence based methods to transform mindsets in my community for the past 8 years- I understand FIRST HAND the importance of a healthy mindset and its’ impact on your business.

It’s a NON-NEGOTIABLE BOO.

After working with many female entrepreneurs in my coaching business, and making thousands of dollars in the process- I’ve condensed the psychology behind escaping the thought vortex to an exact science which I will share with you inside the Escape the Thought Spiral Course.

Let’s talk.

Homegirl, lets talk about what the thought spirals look like:

You’ve been in the entrepreneur game for a minute- and you’ve made some BANK. People engage with your Instagram stories. They buy your services. You’ve got the whole “know, like, trust” thing DOWN PAT.

BUT. The days that are a shitshow? Are the ones that you don’t talk about to your audience- because you’re afraid you won’t look like an authority anymore.

On those days, you might be:

• Doubting what your business coach said- ‘cuz even though she told you to price your offer at $690,909 dollars- you don’t TRULY believe that anyone will pay that much

• Struggling emotionally to climb out of a slump in business- and you honestly don’t feel like showin’ up on stories with puffy eyelids

• Going into a ‘I’m a fraud’ spiral’- just waiting for your clients to tell you that they wasted money on their investment with you and they want a refund or even comparing yourself to your homegirl who did the same group coaching program as you- but her business skyrocketed faster. Meanwhile you’re over there thinkin’, “wtf? We know the same shit! Why didn’t that happen for me?!”

• Let’s not leave out the fact that on top of all of this- you wonder whether you’ll maintain the financial success you’ve had every month and you think “I know they say that the dips in income are normal in business- but are they? What if I have to get a * real job* now?”

• You’re constantly worrying that people are getting tired of you selling your services- because no one seems to vote on IG story polls anymore unless its yesterdays’ moldy sandwich.

• You’re so goal driven that if you don’t reach your income goals for your launches- it’s a toss up as to whether you’ll be inspired to create content afterwards.